Feast of Love

i just finished watching the movie "Feast of Love". this is one of the movies that left a lingering impression on me. i'm a romantic, but not the typical love-story kind of romantic. i like movies, books, music and other media that evokes love, friendship, hope and optimism. but at the same time longing, loss, tragedy, dark twists and drama does it for me. i love movies that doesn't have a happy ending or a movie that leaves you hanging and guessing what might have happened. this movie, however, is different. it doesn't end in tragedy. but instead, after all the losses, it finishes with hope and a brand new start. i can't describe it enough but, as for me, it pinched a familiar feeling. so, here is it's synopsis from imdb:

Bradley (Greg Kinnear) owns a coffee shop in Portland, Oregon called Jitters. He has been married for six years to Kathryn (Selma Blair), a tomboy-type who loves softball. Bradley introduces her, after a game, to his favorite customer, Harry (Morgan Freeman), a professor who is temporarily on leave from his job, due to the death of a child. Harry, a very intuitive and wise man, married to a loving lady (Jane Alexander), sees immediately that Kathryn has eyes for another female softball player. In short order, Kathryn calls it quits with Bradley, leaving him very despondent. However, a beautiful real estate agent named Diana (Radha Mitchell) soon warms his heart again. But, alas, she is having a secret affair with a married man named David (Billy Burke), even though she becomes quite close to Bradley as well. Then, too, Bradley has two young employees, Chloe and Oscar, who soon fall in love and move in together. But, Oscar's abusive father, The Bat (Fred Ward, very scary), makes things difficult for them from time to time. In fact, how strong are the chances for happiness among these fine people of Portland? If you saw the trailers, you might think this was a romantic comedy. Not so, not by far. It is a romantic drama with some comic elements but a great deal of in-your-face depressing reality, too. That is not to say it is not worthwhile, for it is, but no one will be humming a tune when he or she exits the theater. All of the principal players are quite good, bringing depth to a story that could be dismissed, at times, as being overly melodramatic. As for the Portland scenery, it is lovely, as are the costumes and camera work. Benton, the director, has not been at the helm of a film for quite some time but he clearly shows he has not lost his touch. On the other hand, this film is rated R and for good reason, as it definitely has some sexually-charged scenes. In brief, if you are drawn to films that include romantic drama and sharp character studies, this movie might do for you. Also, fans of the cast will want to see it, too. But, be forewarned that some tears might fall and that the experience overall will be bittersweet.

this is a line from the movie that struck me the most: "God doesn't hate us. If He did, He wouldn't have made our hearts so brave." - Greg Kinnear to Morgan Freeman after a close friend died.

come to think of it, it's true. God won't give us something we can't handle. however tough or pressing a problem maybe, it is happening for a reason. and surely, something good will come out of it.